You’re Not Broken — You’re Just Not Doing the Work!

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Hi there.

Welcome to your ultimate life.

Your ultimate life.

I don't know, are you living your ultimate life?

So if I say welcome to your ultimate life, you're thinking, Yeah, I wish.

I don't know, you might be thinking that.

Let's talk about what we actually are able to do, what we can do.

Everybody is at a different place in their lives.

You're walking your own life timeline, and that's true all the time.

Your experiences.

We live in something I call a context.

Straight jacket.

And the word straight jacket is pejorative because it's something that restrains us, presumably against our will.

Right.

And I hope you're watching the video because this image behind me is a fiery phoenix rising from the ashes.

And I use that image on purpose.

It is the trademark of my company.

And you'll see it on the back of, I don't know, all but most of our books because it symbolizes rising from the ashes.

Now you and I, at some point in our lives, feel like we're in a pile of ashes, like we've burned it down completely.

I was working.

I wasn't working on.

I finished a song called let my light guide you back.

Let my light guide you back.

Or I think the song's just called guide you back.

And one of the lyrics in the chorus says, you know, you don't have to do it alone.

Cry your tears with nobody home.

Or fight your fears with nobody home.

Different versions of the chorus.

And love is the guidepost to bring us back.

Divine love, love and we give and show each other.

And you might feel like.

And I have certainly felt like I have nobody.

I am alone, 100%, absolutely, completely, totally alone.

With no one I can talk to, no one I can turn to, and no place to go.

I felt like that I don't anymore.

But at the dark times in my life prior to 2007, when I had the divine awakening, I did feel like that.

And I felt like it for years.

This wasn't a momentary thing.

It was something that went on for about seven full years from 2000 to 2007, I felt that way.

And it drove me to the very dark places that you already know from other episodes.

And if you don't know, then you and you want to know about it and how I got past that you can read the book tightrope of depression.

My journey from darkness, Despair and death to light, Love and life.

Read that.

My journey from darkness, Despair and death to light, Love and Life.

And the name of the book is tightrope of depression.

One of the things that I've created because I am very committed to helping you, 300 million people this year, access your own power.

Because I had power, I didn't know how to access it.

I had tools and power.

I didn't know a hat.

So they were laying there unused and dormant until I learned some things and it got pretty dark.

Anyway, there's a thing.

I have a little course that's free for you.

It's called master your monsters.

Masteryourmonsters.com you may need www in front of that.

I don't know.

You have to try it.

But anyway, masteryourmonsters.com go there.

It's a little free course that I have about how to master common things like I'm not good enough and it's not my fault and I don't have time and a whole bunch of other things that we often use as reasons why we can't take control of our lives.

Creating your ultimate life is all about rising from the ashes, as this phoenix is.

No matter how bad your ashes are, your ashes at maybe not bad at this time, or you may be in complete meltdown.

I understand both from my point of view and I'm not making any comparisons.

What I am assuring you is it doesn't matter what's come before.

You matter now.

Today, this day, you matter.

And you can have a big impact on yourself and others if you want to do it.

That is a fact.

That is an eternal, absolute truth.

Now, it isn't going to come in an Amazon box.

And I'm not saying it's easy, but I can't.

At least it wasn't for me.

But I can tell you you matter.

You matter.

You matter right here, right now.

And I love you right here, right now.

Your creator loves you.

The Creator loved me.

God loved me.

And I certainly couldn't hear it or feel it for some of that time.

And it took some pretty significant slaps upside the head to get me to wake up.

But they came and they will come for you.

This episode may be one because I want to talk about the name of this is what can I even do?

Because we talk often about all the stuff in the world.

I mean, we live in a world right now that's ruled by fear, by greed and by dishonesty.

Fear Agreed.

And dishonesty, lying, hiding, cheating, camouflage, whatever you want to use.

Fear.

Agreed.

And dishonesty.

What if we lived in a world that was ruled by love instead of fear, by service instead of greed, and by truth instead of dishonesty?

And dishonesty includes everything.

Shading, hiding, camouflage, you know, all of the forms.

And you can say, well, that's impossible.

Well, it's not going to happen with the click of a finger.

It's not going to happen because you say so or I say so.

But it is going to happen when all of us and each of us choose to run our own lives like that.

I can't make anybody do anything, and neither can you.

But what we can do is be the light.

Be a beacon of light, a vessel of love and a conduit of power.

And then you might say, which is the name of this?

What can I even do?

Well, there's where you start.

There's where I start.

I am a beacon of light, a vessel of love and a conduit of power.

Somebody may hear me talk and think I'm nuts and crazy and got jacked to say, and I don't care because for somebody else, they tell me I changed their lives.

They feel different, they see hope, they see power.

They have stuff suddenly.

So I know I'm a beacon of light, a vessel of love and a conduit of power.

And I also know that you are in your way, with your voice, with your story.

And the most important thing either one of us have to give is our own life story, our choices of resilience, of being the phoenix, of overcoming failure, of being, getting out of the darkness a little at a time.

And, you know, one of the things people do is they wait.

They say, well, I need to get all the way out of the darkness before I got jacked to say, because I'm not done yet.

Well, I got news for you.

Nobody's done.

This is a mountain without a top.

And as long as we are one step ahead of anyone, we can reach back and help them.

And that's what we're called and created to do.

As divine beings, we're created to love and serve each other.

And you know that right now when I say that in your heart, it burns.

You feel that truth and you felt that yearning.

And sometimes it's then put out.

The fire is put out with the question, what the frick can I even do?

I'm just one person.

Well, that's what we're going to talk about today, but it needs to be founded on the truth that one, you can create a life of purpose, prosperity and joy.

And you can have it right now.

Not some out there in the future that's today available to you.

Now.

You can create and do create your own existence.

There are at least I can think of five or six different names for that process.

The conscious unified field, intelligent stuff, the infinite quantum field.

There's a bunch of different names that talk about the infinite possibilities that go out in front of us.

Every moment that we're in right now has an infinite number of forward paths depending on what we think, what we say and what we choose.

And we've been sort of conditioned that if I can't snap my fingers or wave my Harry Potter wand and create my new reality, then it's not, you know, it's not going to happen.

That's not how anything grows in the real world.

That's not how anything grows.

Growth is gradual and it takes place according to the rules of growth, whatever they are.

Think about muscles and push up.

Think about plants and seasons.

Think about wealth that you're creating.

It takes some time.

And there are hacks and shortcuts.

There are the slow way and there is the fast way.

Okay?

There are faster ways and slower ways.

If you go to work out at a gym and you don't follow good rules, it can take you forever and you can damage your body.

If you go to the gym the same number of minutes or even less minutes or hours, and you follow some good rules and good nutrition, then you get way faster progress.

So that's natural.

And that's true with creating your ultimate life as well.

So let's get to the question, what can I do as an individual?

It starts with deciding who you are.

So you know me, I start every day with two and a half hours, sometimes three hours of very intentional, focused morning preparation.

People ask how I have time.

That process creates time.

I get more done when I use those two and a half hours to prepare myself than I do when I take those two and a half hours and go do stuff.

Because the stuff that I go do takes longer.

It takes a lot more correcting, second guessing, uncertainty, slower decisions.

When I am fully prepared with my daily creation process, I get stuff done way faster.

So preparing yourself for the day is not negotiable.

It's not a nice to have.

It is essential.

And you know what, the funny thing is?

You already do it.

You already prepare yourself for the day.

The question is, is it effective?

Is whatever you're doing to start your day, does it work?

Does it put you in your A game, your Olympic level performance, your highest and best and most powerful self.

Or is it just some kind of.

Well, you know, kind of whatever.

Because if that's how it is and that's how I live most of my life, then we go through the day at half mast, right?

40%, 50%, 60% effective.

And on the other hand, when we show up and we create ourselves intentionally to be on our A game, then we get a lot more.

It isn't about more, but it's the right stuff done.

Because part of that preparation is getting intuition and inspiration and knowing what the right things to do are.

And you know that by intuition.

It just comes to you when you learn to hear your inner voices that are good, that guide you and lead you, and we all have access to them.

This is not mystery.

All right, so last episode, Sandra Vaux was on and she talked about, if you haven't heard, episode 961, Sandra need to go listen to that.

Because there's an example of one person, she goes to prisons and has for years.

She is a straight talk coach and she goes and helps people learn what they can do, take control of their lives, develop themselves while they're in prison.

So that when they get out, and most of them eventually do, they are prepared.

They're not floundering.

They know what they're going to do.

They're prepared.

They've prepared their own forward path so they're not thinking of, you know, learned helplessness and victim mindset and that sort of thing, entitlement.

But they go out on fire.

And I'm not pretending coming out of prison's easy.

You got restrictions.

I know a friend of mine right now because he did serve some time for felony conviction, he couldn't get financial licenses, so he couldn't do certain kinds of real estate and investments and that kind of stuff.

And he could have said, because that's what he did before, though, that wrecks the rest of my life.

No, instead he did another thing that was related that didn't require the licenses and now he's very successful and makes a lot of money and helps a lot of people who do have those licenses.

So the idea that some externality has constrained you and you're screwed and you're dead and it's finished for you is not true.

Not now, not ever.

And it's not true for you.

If you've made it true by how you think, that's fine.

Are you going to stay there?

Because wherever you are right now is where you are.

There's no sense in pretending otherwise.

The question is, if you're not happy, if you're happy with where you're at, then I love it.

Let's talk.

I'd love to hear your life story and what's going on and how come you're happy and how you're living your ultimate life.

But if you're not and you're going, dang, I wish X, and there's a lot of X.

There's, you know, X is a long list.

Then let's talk it.

Also, because you can have whatever you want and you can change the world.

I am.

You can.

Now, it's not changed all at once, but it's changed in the neighborhood.

And every person I talk to, I leave changed.

I leave lifted and blessed and loved.

And I'm hoping right now I'm loving you and encouraging you because you have mighty power.

You can do Jack with it, or you can change the world with it.

Your call.

Your call today and every day.

So let's get into some specifics about what you can do.

I'm only one person.

What can I do?

Well, the first, most important thing is to accept the truth that you're precious.

You're a divine being created by God, and you're a precious soul.

I don't care how many mistakes you've made.

I don't care if you're in jail right now or if you've hurt someone or you rip people off before or you were unfaithful or a whole bunch of other things that tend to make us feel bad about ourselves.

That was then, this is now.

The actions to change are to fix whatever's broken, change who you are, and then go add good to the world.

Now, those are, you know, general statements.

But fixing what's broken is obvious.

It's whatever it is that you can do or I can do to fix whatever I broke, trust, relationships, whatever I can do.

Now, if someone else is still pissed off, then you can't fix it, and they won't let you.

That's not on you.

If you're open and loving and you've let forgiveness reign and you're holding nothing and you're open and you're willing to do whatever you can do, then you're done waiting for someone else to get their own spiritual growth done before you can feel okay is nonsense.

Stay open, stay loving, stay focused.

The second thing, besides fix what you can is change who you are.

Because whoever you were that did whatever you did, that you feel bad about, that needs to change.

So you then are a person that would never do that again.

And that's if you did something, if someone else did something to you.

There's also a change.

Because often when someone does something to you, we become a victim.

They beat the whatever out of me, or they raped me, or they hurt me, or they stole from me or they were unfaithful to me.

Oh, I'm destroyed because.

No, you can be done being destroyed.

Claim your own sovereignty.

You are not less of a person because someone hurt you.

It might seem like that, especially if it's a parent or an uncle or someone close to you or someone you trusted deeply.

But they have an issue on their journey.

They will need to take care of it.

You don't.

I don't have to carry that baggage.

So forgive them.

Forgive them.

You know, don't put yourself in harm's way.

None of that stuff, but forgive them.

Get rid of it.

Let them, whoever that they are and whatever the they did so that it no longer affects you.

No negativity, no bitterness, no anger.

That's the changing who you are.

If someone hurt you.

So if someone hurt me or you or I hurt someone, or you did.

We still have to change who we are.

I'm no longer a victim.

I will not be a victim of one molecule, of any and everything that ever happened to me before.

There was plenty for me.

Maybe there's a thousand times more for you.

Get control of your own life.

Get out of the situations you need to get out of, and then dump it.

Dump the feeling, dump the victim, dump the.

You know.

And that might require help.

I certainly needed help.

So go get it right.

So thing one, what can I do?

Fix yourself.

Number two.

Then choose to be a force for good in the world.

So fix yourself.

Love yourself.

That includes furious and joyful and free love for yourself.

You're a divine being.

No matter who did what or no matter what you did, do what you can to fix it.

Change who you are.

Then love yourself and get going, going forward so you can be the beacon of light that you are, the vessel of love that you are, the conduit of power that you are.

So take the work that's needed to repair yourself and love yourself.

The second thing.

And that's part A and B, right?

Fix yourself.

Love yourself.

Then you decide how you want to be a beacon of love, a beacon of light, a beacon of power, a beacon of encouragement in the world.

Because we're built to love and serve each other.

So what can I do?

Exactly what I said Fix myself, love myself.

I've decided to be a beacon of love by writing books, by doing podcasts, by speaking.

I just got asked to speak at another event here in a couple of weeks, well, in April, so maybe three or four weeks.

And it's going to be talking about how to live your life powerfully to create prosperity, purpose, prosperity and joy, the ultimate life.

How do you do that?

And all these episodes that I've done, we're nearly at a thousand, are all about that.

Because you create your life and I can either abdicate that, give it away, or I can get after it and create what I want.

So that's thing number two.

Fix yourself and love yourself is thing number one.

Number two, decide you're going to be a beacon of light.

Now you say, this is where people say, well, I can't do very much.

I'm only one person.

You are only one person.

So is Steve Jobs love him or hate him?

Look what he did.

So was Jesus love him or hate him?

Look what he did.

Okay, Gandhi, love him or hate him?

Look what he did.

One person.

Yes, you're that good.

Yes, you're that capable.

Yes, you have a mission and message that, that important.

And any time spent dissing that is useless.

Well, I don't have anything.

I don't have a story.

I don't have anything.

Yes, you do.

Yes, you do.

You know, one of my favorite things is going on right now.

I'm running a group right now to help people identify their story, write a book, create a service and product out of it, and then add good to the world by creating money, selling their product and their book.

I'm in the middle of one of those.

If you want to know about when the next one is, because this one's already started, let me know.

Once a year, sometimes twice, I run a six month process, at the end of which you'll have a book done, it'll be on Amazon, you'll have a bestseller campaign, you'll have a product done that teaches from your experience.

But you have to be willing to do the work.

It's not download and double click and AI doesn't write it for you.

This is you with your heart and soul because that's what really matters.

You say, how do I make a difference?

Don't turn your difference making over to AI.

We use it.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not distant.

It's a great tool.

But the power of your life comes from the truth of who you are, not from how good you write prompts.

Not how good your prompt engineering is.

That's not it.

Okay, so now there's more people.

You know, there's Carnegie, J.P.

morgan, Napoleon Hill.

You know, names that you know and love them or hate them.

You know, they're not perfect.

They did some good things, they did some bad things, some greed, some selfishness, some this, that and the other, except Jesus, who was perfect.

But the rest of them got their ups and downs.

So do I.

So do you.

So number one, yourself, number two, decide you're gonna be somebody and do something and then get after it.

Get after it.

One process, one day, one person, one thing at a time.

I was talking to somebody yesterday, and it'll be several weeks ago by the time you hear this, but I was talking to somebody yesterday and they're like, you know, I don't really know how to make this difference.

And when I listened to him talk about where they'd been in the story and what they'd overcome, I was like, I can see a ton of people you could help.

I can see.

And so we started talking about it and framing it differently.

And then they got excited.

Wow, I could do this and I could do that.

Yeah, you could.

But you have to decide to, because this isn't going to come in an Amazon box.

It isn't going to come with step by step foolproof instructions, because life, Life isn't like that.

Okay?

But the instructions are there and available.

That's what I love doing.

So I'm offering help.

If you want to identify how you can best impact the world, I got a process for you.

If you want to know how you can make money serving and doing what you love, let's talk.

Cause I got a process for you.

I'm using it and I'm helping others use it.

And it works every single time.

So let's own the truth of our divinity, our capability and possibility.

So after you've fixed yourself and you love yourself and you've decided how you're going to add good to the world, getting after it is the third thing.

I said, get after it.

Now, that's a process that doesn't happen in one day.

It certainly didn't for me or anybody that I know.

And it involves my daily creation process, but it involves imagining how I can turn my goal into reality.

So I'll tell you how I do this and how I help others do it.

So my goal right now, this year, you know, that is to reach 300 million people.

And I'm going to reach them with a message, a method and mastery.

The Message that I have for you listening right now is that you are a divine being.

You've been through whatever levels of hell you've been through, and you're past it.

And you still have a yearning to add good to the world.

Think about that.

You've been through those and you have a yearning to add good to the world.

But most people don't take action on that.

It remains a wistful thought, oh, I should do this.

I love helping people, but they don't actually go after it.

Getting after it means, okay, let's get it organized.

Who would you help?

Who needs the learnings that you have?

This is what I've done.

So what?

I looked at my own life of depression and drugs and addiction and suicide attempts, and I overcame those and, you know, got on a better path starting in 2007.

And I worked on it, and I'm still working on it now.

It's now 18 years later.

So working on it.

In that process, I've learned all kinds of stuff and so have you.

What I chose to do is write books about it.

Okay, I write books.

Or a book on forgiveness.

Wrote a book on walking without fear.

Wrote a book on the results equation, which is how to get stuff done, and a whole bunch, 20 books.

So I chose to write.

If you want to write, I can help you.

I got a class that helps people write books because after I realized I could write, dang, I'm going to help people do this too.

It's so much fun.

If you don't want to write, there's other ways to do it.

You can become a coach.

You can become some kind of consultant.

You can create a product or a service.

You can aim at people who.

I got a person I talked to yesterday, and he's working on helping couples avoid relationship breakdowns and divorce because of money.

So he focuses on helping people learn about money, how to use it, how to grow it, how to save it, how to create it, specifically, not just to get rich and be stupid, but he wants to help couples with the knowledge and skills that he has manage their money better so they stay married, have good families, their kids don't experience divorce, etc.

Etc.

So for whatever reason his life experience is, I'm going to save or help save couples one bank account at a time.

Now, I invented that.

That's not what he said, but that's really what it is in my.

The way I heard it.

So that's what he loves doing.

Okay, like you have that.

I don't know what yours is.

It Comes from your life experience.

What things have you overcome?

What have you done?

What choices have you made to grow?

And again, I said this earlier, but I'm gonna say it again.

It's not about being done.

I'm not done.

And people think, well, you've written 20 books and you have all this stuff.

You're way up there.

No, I'm still walking up the hill, just like you.

Okay.

And where you are, I have been.

And where I am now, you can come if you want to.

We're all in this journey of life aiming to be the best we can.

And the more excuses we make, the longer it takes.

And the more we get after it, the more fun it is and the shorter time it takes.

So, one.

I said get after it.

Let's talk about that.

Number one, create a daily creation process.

Now, I've got a book for you, another one.

It's called Living with Purpose and Power.

Living with purpose and Power.

And the reason I wrote that book is in my own work for me, I discovered the thing that lets me find my purpose, turn it into valuable products and services, make money, create joy, change the world.

And I shared how I did that exactly.

And specifically in that book.

And I offer help for you to do that for yourself, to find the thing you want to do most of all, and do it.

Create the necessary structures.

I don't know.

Maybe it's speaking.

Maybe it's products, maybe it's services, maybe it's.

Whatever it is.

But we can figure it out.

And then you can both get paid well, really well, and make a huge difference in the world.

But it isn't going to create itself.

And my experience is most people feel that yearning and they don't do anything about it.

Most people feel the yearning clear back to number one, to get themselves healthy.

And they don't take the action.

It's too hard or too scary.

Part 2.

Declare how you want to show up in the world.

Who you going to help and how you going to do it?

Too hard.

Don't want to do that.

Number three, then you got to do the work to figure out what that looks like.

What kind of products, what kind of services, who do you show up for?

How do you do it?

Who do you talk to?

Who do you help?

Now, I'm not going to pretend this is easy.

I am going to tell you it's the most fulfilling thing in the world.

It is more exciting.

I get up every single day, including this morning, excited, focused, stoked, dive into my creation process, create myself for the day, and Then I work, and I don't even work.

I play all day long.

But my play is loving you.

My play is encouraging you and myself to discover your talents, to be the best version of ourselves together and then to serve.

And in that service, you get paid, and you get paid well.

So many people I talk to say, well, I don't know how to get paid for what I want to do.

Well, you haven't tried.

You haven't tried, and you're mad at me for saying that, you know, feel free.

If you'd like help, I can show you, because I've done it, and I've helped lots of people do it.

And I know you right here, right now can do that.

So today, the episode is, what can I even do?

Well, get yourself healed, and on the way, figure out how and who you want to serve.

Then decide to get the work done to create whatever you want to create to do that service.

How does that look?

Is it speaking?

Is it some kind of product?

Is it, you know, is it community work?

Is it global?

What do you.

What are you willing to do?

And on the way?

The secret to all of that is love yourself.

Love yourself.

Love yourself, love yourself, love yourself, love yourself, love yourself.

And I said that umpteen times, because over and over again when I talk to people, it's the missing ingredient.

They get scared because they don't love themselves.

Fear of rejection.

If you truly love yourself, what someone else is thinking at this moment doesn't affect you at all.

If you're committed to your purpose.

The fact that someone else isn't ready right now, that's not a reflection on you.

I'm saying all this stuff right now, and some of you hearing it may think I'm nuts.

You may have turned it off in the middle.

You got angry.

I'm stupid, I'm wrong.

That doesn't affect my love for you, and it doesn't affect my passion about adding good to the world and helping you see your divinity, your capability, and your possibility.

Now, I cannot give you the exact steps for you in a podcast because I'm talking to everyone, but I can certainly do it if we talk together.

So I'm inviting you to go to kellenfluekeggermedia.com you see the URL on the screen, kellenfluekeigermedia.com and there's a contact form.

You want to talk?

Let's talk.

You want to tell your story?

Go to that other URL, www.dreambuildrite.com.

by the time you hear this the workshop will be underway, but there'll be another one.

Maybe later, in 25.

And maybe it won't be till 26, I don't know.

I conduct them when I get enough people that are interested, that want that help.

And it is so much fun for you, the participants, to dive in and identify the power of your story.

So you go back and you say, what do?

Well, you can help one person yourself.

Then you can take that and help one more, those around you.

Maybe your family, maybe spouse, maybe you're together, maybe you're single, one other, and then two, and then four.

You know that if you take a penny and double it every day for 30 days, you have a million, $5 million.

I think so in a month.

Your ability to reach people is staggering.

Just most people won't do the work.

Don't be that.

Instead, own the divinity of your own life.

Own the truth of your awesome capability.

What can you even do?

Everything.

You can live a life of purpose, prosperity and joy if you want it.

But it isn't going to come.

Like I said in an Amazon box, it isn't going to create itself.

But it is available to you, right here, right now.

No matter where you've been and no matter what has come before.

If you want my help, then I'm available to do that.

That's what I love doing.

Whether you use me or you use somebody else, take this as an encouragement.

It is a statement of eternal truth.

You're a divine being.

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