606. I named this video podcast, "Performance & Proving Something."
I grew up thinking I had to always perform - at school, at church, for my parents, for strangers, for bosses, my spouse, children... basically everyone. Holding hands with Performance was then Proving Something... I had an almost obsessive and insane NEED to prove something... to those same people. Sure, as far as the outside world was concerned, "I made it." I made a lot of money, had a position of power... in the C-Suite. But, was miserable.
What is true is this... you make your own rules. You define your life, and you live it. Do you want to get off of the Performance and Prove Something dog and pony show? Then keep listening and watching.
If you're like me, there's been many times when I felt like I had so many obligations I couldn't, couldn't get out from under the so many things going on. I felt completely buried. I'm sure that you've either felt this way or feel this way.
Here's one way to look at it... how many of those obligations are actually part of your purpose? If you've followed some of the earlier episodes, I created something I call a PTAC, a personal truth and commitment statement, or, some call it an "I AM statement." or a declaration of being - where you decide who you are, and how you show up in the world. Ask yourself this... Are your obligations consistent with that? If they're not, look at it as an opportunity for growth and change. It's an opportunity to create your life the way you want to.
Three questions this video will address?
#1. Who or what owns your life?
#2. What are your commitments? What can and will you commit to? Will you fulfill your commitments? You have a choice.
#3. How to move past obligation and overwhelm? What to do.
If you're interested in having a convo about any of these topics, please schedule a time to chat at: bookme.name/coachkellan.
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